Today I was a tad bored at work so I decided that it would be fun to surf the blogs & visit blogs that are not on my notify list.

It is so sad to see that there is so much in fighting & mud slinging here. I was very surprised by it.

I though this was a place to come put down you thoughts & feelings & not be judged for it. I guess I was wrong.

I hope people can get over their issues & let others be. There is really no need to be vindictive or just plain nastey.

I think we are all here to let of steam from our real lives & do not need to have our blogging “buddies” add to the emotional rollacoaster we are already going through.

For those of you who are being bullied I am so sorry try ignore them as it is really not worth the effort. Yeah I know its easier said than done.

For those who are doing the bullying “GET A LIFE”. We have enough bullies here in the real world why bring it into our safe cyber world. What exactly do you get out of bullying people here?

Ok I had my moment, I fell better after that little rant.

BTW: This is not directed to any paticular person... is totally general.

Steffy has her first tooth, it popped out on friday the 13th.

This weekend was great. Saturday DH had to work & Vincent had to attend a maths day at school so DH decided that the youngest 3 & myself should spend the day at the zoo. Keira always love the zoo she has a thing for Hippo's.


Daniel with Keira


Steffy

All the kids were well behaved & strangely enough it was a really relaxing day.

Sunday my grandbaby came for his visit the little man is now 4 months old. He really loves Laughing its too cute.


Vincent & GB

Well news from the children’s court is that we need to track down the birth mothers husband. They have been separated for 2 years & she does not want him to know about the baby but now the court is insisting that we get an affidavit from him saying that he is not the father, that they are separated & that he does not want to lay claim to the baby.

Firstly the birth mother has no clue where he is & she has stated under oath that he is not the father & that there is no father listed on the birth certificate. Grrr.

I really do not want to make things any harder for the birth mother than what they are already.

Now we have to request a copy of the birth mothers marriage certificate so that we can place an advert in the Zulu news paper requesting that he contact us so that we can get the affidavit out of him. The advert has to run for 3 consecutive days & we need to have original copies to give to the court to prove that we have tried to trace him. Yippee.

Our private social worker seems to be MIA so as yet she has not received her copy of the documents from Durban Children’s Society. Will keep calling her hopefully she will respond. Am thinking about going past her house tonight to drop off the documents.

We are going to court on the 20th April to make the formal request of adoption, but it looks like it is going to be a long process again. The clerk of the court wanted to know how we manage to always get the complicated adoptions. I think I am a magnate for complications

My little Angels... will post more pics tomorrow

It was a long weekend, Steffy has a head cold & is being pumped full of meds.

The boys are doing great.

Vincent turned 17 on Monday hell time flys… I still remember cursing him for being a week late….

Daniel is back to school tomorrow he is so happy cus he will she his GF again.

Keira has been grumpy all weekend not sure is she is coming down with the flu bug, Hell I hope not.

Other than that nothing happened all is good & calm. *sigh*.