Well after chatting to a frined of mine who has adopted 3 kids about wanting to adopt again & poor Dh's reaction to my "BRIGHT" idea she gave me a few sneaky tips on how to convince him. Here is how she does it.... she keeps talking about the new baby as if its a done deal... then after awhile her DH actually thinks its his idea...

pure evil I really like this girls style. She has managed to adopt 3 kids in one year, one of which is a special needs child, wow.... I have a lot of respect for her. She is a great mom & is doing a wonderful job with her new brood.